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Habits Run Our Lives

Always looking for the gift…

When I awakened at 3 AM a thought popped into my head. All my life I created circumstances that took me away from people making my life very private, very quiet – and allowed me to create a world I may never have known – inside. The many talents and gifts I discovered may have remained hidden even from me had I not found mself with so much time alone.

When I was growing up being a tomboy was definitely not fashionable. So my friends were boys – until we got old enough for the boy-only sports leagues. Then I found myself stuck again. The happy news is I always had boy friends with whom I could do the fun stuff like climb trees and rocks and play baseball. The stuff most girls just didn’t want to do.

Okay so that was how it was. But that is not all it was. You see I also too kmyself out by getting sick. I think I did that to see if my mom would take off work to stay home with me. Only she couldn’t because we needed the income to live (my dad having transitioned to the next plane when I was really little).

Now I am not talking colds and flu. I am talking mono and hepatitis, the kinds of illness that took me out of school for months to the point I even had to drop out of college to recover.

What hit me during the night is every time I moved into some social network and made friends I attracted someone or something that knocked me out of the game. The ultimate blow happened when that client attacked me forcing me to leave the field of psychotherapy.

Hmm, the patterns we repeat untl we get the message…

And here I thought I now heard the whispers of the Universe and no longer needed the 2 x 4 attention-grabbing blows!

You cannot break a habit until you know it exists.

In the darkenss of the middle of the night I recalled mentioning to my friend, earlier in the day, that I felt unable to leave the house because my cat really misses me whenever I disappeared from his site. Now realize (this is the same cat who neary left me a few short weeks ago and my thinking is heart issues develop from a lack of insuuficient attention and love. I always felt that my Dad left us at such a young age with heart troubles becuase he didn’t feel loved – but that’s a personal issue.)

I have been afraid to leave my cat to live my life. I waasn’t there in the moment my Bubby left or my first cat and I got to my Mom the instant after she left.

Okay. I know  spirits decide when to leave. I also know my Mom did not want to leave with me there. And that is how it is. And here I am repeating that pattern with my cat.

Again I took myself out of life – again – so I can create.

I do that taking myself out into seclusion, of sorts–and I write music and articles and I paint.

And I teach what I most want to learn – living in happiness.

And I do know how to live in happiness. I constantly test myself to prove to me what I know and, more importantly what I do and teach, works. Beyond a shadow of a doubt I know how to ive in happiness.

With  that awareness I can now stop living as the subject of my own in-depth research!

How Vulnerable Are You?

How vulnerable are you, name
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When Healers Think They Are Healing Others But…

When I worked as a psychotherapist I knew about this not-so fictitious place called Therapist’s Central where, it seemed, clients chose their therapists so both worked on the same issues at the same time. Hopefully the therapist stayed very many steps ahead of the client.

The point being that  clients forced the therapists to clear their own stuff so they could be of optimal service.  This situation gave each therapist a very much “being in their shoes” experience. (No, I am not saying a therapist has to live every  issue of every client they treat. I want you to know how often that reality appears. There are no coincidences.)

Realize all those events happened back before I ever knew about how we attract who we are. Obviously Therapist’s Central is very real. We call it the Law of Attraction!

What hit me just now is the fact that Therapist’s Central is not just about psychotherapy. As a Specialized Kinesiologist I do the exact same thing. Whatever issues lie out of my awarenes appear in the clients who come to me. What does that mean? While working with someone I see that some of my own situations, or the aftermath of them, appears in those with whom I deal.

Now here is where you must exercise caution if you work with a “healer” by any name. You see, it is not possible for any of us to be 100% clear. An awakened “healer” knows to clear herself or himself before  working with someone else. Such a healing agent also knows when the information that surfaces is their own stuff, that they are testing themselves in the moment, rather than what belongs to the client. And immediately corrects that situation.

How do I know all that? I trained with really excellent practitioners who immediately saw their own info coming up in their clients.  I watched how they tested for accuracy and then corrected the situation. They showed the difference between conscious living in their profession adn how the majority work.

I also saw healing agents who had no clue they  had switched from testing their client to testing themsleves – while it still appeared the client was the subject.

I saw such a healer once – me being the client. So interesting. Everything going on in her personal life showed up “for me.” I was clear that it was her stuff and not mine but, at the time, I did not understand how it showed as mine.

Another healer I saw would, miraculously, find that whatever expensive new equipment or supplement she just bought was the exact remedy for “my” situation. Needless to say I stopped seeing both of those people.

Thing is, both situations arises more often than one might think. So I offer that caution when working with someone.

Smile – People Will Wonder What You Are Up To

The fastest way to happiness is so simple – smile and KNOW you are happy. If you do not feel happy then you chose to see your world and the people and circumstances in it in a way that leaves you feeling bummed or ho hum, sad or angry, etc.
Happiness is a choice – your choice. You will always see what you expect to see. You will always experience what you accept as your experience.

Always choose happiness. I guarantee your life will shift instantly.

NOW is All You Have

The past is gone. The future never arrives. The only moment in which you live is now, and now…and now… In this moment all is perfect. In the midst of a crisis by staying in the present moment you eliminate fear. After all, fear is taking a memory out of your past (that no longer exists except in your imagination) and projecting it into your future as a possibility, probably embellished to appear even worse than the original event.
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