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5 Steps to Rewire Your Brain For Success

My voice isn’t back yet I still made this video for someone you know who is stuck making excuses for not being successful in their relationship, their health, their work, their happiness or their finances.

Please click LIKE and share this how-to video because the formula works and you just may help your friend turn around his or her life. they will love you forever!

Stress: Why Do Some People Feel More Stress Than Others?

Stress seems to be a subjective experience. The same stimulus that causes an array of physical symptoms in one person fails to bother a different person in any way.

For example, for me even the thought of riding a roller coaster, especially one that runs upside-down or backwards, makes my heart jump.  I think if I went on such a ride I would get so stressed so fast it would cause a heart attack.

Yet millions of people love to ride roller coasters. They enjoy that adrenalin rush. What they experience as exhilaration I experience as intense fear and super high stress.

What makes that difference? Why do some people live every moment in crisis or high drama constantly in stressful situations – or so they perceive them that way.

Therein lies the answer. Stress results from interpreting life events in ways that feel bad, negative, sad, angry, etc.

Stressed people see the glass as half empty. Their focus always goes to the worst possible scenario regardless of the situation.

You always see what you look for – always. When you look for the bad you will find it. Ah, and when you look for the good you will find the good!

People actually become addicted to their emotional state. Witness how people who live in drama and stress behave while on vacation. For them their stress level often increases when they don’t have to go to work.

They find themselves anxious about what may be happening back at the office – or not happening that needs to get done. They worry about how much work is piling up for them to tend to after their vacation.

Those people attract bad things because all they feel is worry and fear. People always and only attract who they are and how they feel. Then they seem surprised their lives continue to look and feel crummy.

They only expect bad things and sure enough – they get only bad things.

Their stress levels would actually rise even higher if they failed to get their worry-fix. And, as with any addiction, they need each fix to be more and more potent as their body acclimates to the current levels of bodily chemicals released by their emotions.

On the other side of the coin are the people who either hide their heads in the sand and pretend nothing bad, and therefore nothing stress inducing, exists. Hiding is less than optimal. Eventually untended-to emotions increase in severity until they explode n your face manifesting as illness or injury.

Where is the happy middle? Right in the middle.

People who look for the good in life find it. They live at higher frequencies of vibration where all that is happy and good exists. When you look for the good and focus on solutions you simply do not experience stress too often.

People can only feel stressed if they feel unable to act to change the situation. When they know they create their reality they know they create it as they want to live it.

Your Success Image – And Contest

I rarely endorse other people. So you know I hold a person in very high esteem if I write totally unsolicited raves about them as I am doing here.

Plus I am offering two copies of Lauren’s book, Image Matters! and two copies of her CD Become a Celebrity in Your World: Learn the Secret to the 4 people who write the best comments speaking to how and why winning one of those prizes will impact your life.

I met Lauren Solomon four years ago. At that time I still looked like a mom–which would have been fine EXCEPT my kids were grown and gone and I was starting a new business.

before Lauren’s magic           after Lauren’s magic

When I say I looked like a mom I mean I dressed and wore my hair, hmm how to put this delicately –frumpy! Only I didn’t know my look was so disempowering to me for what I intended to do in the world.

You’ve heard me say it before – what you don’t know you don’t know hurts you. And my mom look was definitely hurting me – not just in the message I sent to others but in how I felt inside.

What I didn’t know…
I didn’t even realize how my image impacted me until Lauren taught me how to alter my look. Holding her class in a designer’s intimate shop allowed our small group to try on our new looks right there and then. Hair stylists—the whole works, all in one place.

Okay. Here is what happened for me.

Lauren had asked us to bring along our wardrobes, the clothing we wore in our business and personal ventures. Every item I took out went into the give away pile. Fortunately I quickly realized I really did not like the way I felt wearing what I had thought, when I arrived at class, to be nice clothes, a nice look.

Well, you know me so you know I am always open to change. So I donated all my clothes and went with the styles Lauren showed me to be more flattering, to bring out the artist, the creative me – and the subdued wild “I buck convention” side of me.

Since I like the natural look she and her team respected my not wanting to do much makeup or color my hair. And I left that weekend with a new look, a new wardrobe and a new me – inside and out.

You hear that clothes make the person and you just say, “No way.” Of course clothes do not make you who you are. However clothes can bring out who you are – or subdue your shining Light.

What I know is when I dress well and pay attention to my hair and even soft makeup I feel beautiful and successful. And I love that feeling—even if I don’t leave the house. When I dress nicely and work at home all alone I produce a higher quality of work.

Wondering if your look affects how you feel? Think a moment, the last time you bought a new outfit and got your hair cut and styled, how did you feel when you looked in the mirror?

Take advantage of Lauren’s FREE call this Tuesday evening. Click here to register and get details. This is one hour of your life that could change your whole life.

Register now or you may spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been.

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