Happiness is Having Great Friends

You always attract who you are, right? So the fact that I have so many really great friends tells me I must be a really great friend.

Since I moved across country, leaving my East Coast home of 56 years- where my family and long-time friends still live – I needed to make new friends. In fact, since I rarely travel East my new friends became my family here.

Thank goodness. Losing my cat two weeks ago was a most traumatic ordeal and I feel very thankful for my dear friends who were here in person. Of course I could also feel my dear family and friends with me in spirit. But sometimes you need the physical hugs as well as the spiritual hugs. Know what I mean?

So how do you become a great friend and allow great people to come into your world? Consider the needs of the other person. Be there for others. Ask how you can help make their life better. Let them know you are there for them.

Honor, respect and appreciate who they are – exactly as they are. Every person needs to feel honored, needed and appreciated – every single one of us.

When you remember to see each person as the expression of the Divine then loving them and welcoming them, appreciating and honoring them, becomes automatic.

Today I am celebrating my birthday. I had hoped to be back East with my friends who I have not seen in two years or more. Losing Oreo kinda turned my world upside-down. Thankfully my friends here will join me later today for a fun time.

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Inspiration That Just May Change Your Life

This inspirational video by my friend, David Frey, will move you out of the doldrums or the procrastination or where ever you find yourself when you feel less than terrific.

Get inspired and be inspired. Continue reading below the video to see how to send a Mother’s Day card on me.

Take 5 minute and 6 seconds to make a difference for yourself now.

While all of David’s videos pack a wallop to the heart this one takes my breath away.
Leave a comment and let me know how you feel after you watch. The first 25 commenters get to send a beautiful Mother’s Day card on me. I will pay for the card you get to choose. Simply click on the word “comment” to open the comment window.

And if you miss the first 25 remember I send you a gift for ever 5th comment you leave. Your comments let me know what makes the biggest difference for you so I can give you more of what really works.

Unlikely Friends

Everybody knows that dogs are very social animals. Go to any big city and you will find doggie parks where canines run free and make friends with each other. And we also know how loyal and happy they are around people – okay, most dogs.

But an elephant and a dog? How do does that work? Apprently very well.

What if all people saw beyond such vast differences and just loved, honored and respected one another? How different would this world be?

Leave a comment and tell me what you think. And if you own a dog, tell me about your special pet.

When You Live in Happiness The Sky Does Not Fall

When you live in happiness you vibrate a higher frequency. You live life at a higher level.

So?

When obstacles appear on your path, if you live at a level 9 you can easily negotiate any obstacle of level 8 or lower. You may have to work. You will bounce back to that level quickly because that is your normal level of existence.

But what happens if you live at a level 3? Then any obstacle. level 4 or higher, stops you cold. Plus you will actually decline in functioning while trying to figure out what to do. Your recovery will be long and slow.

You choose to live in happiness–or otherwise. Stop making life so hard!

What is Love for You

Each of us has a unique definition of love. Yet we think everyone defines it the same way we do. For that reason people who are deeply cherished sometimes think no one loves them.

How do you know love in your terms? For you, feeling loved may mean hearing the words, “I love you.” Or love may mean being held and caressed. Or love may mean going out on date. The list goes on and on for as many people as exist on this planet!

Knowing love is an individual experience. You need to know exactly how you experience feeling loved AND you need to tell those in your world how to show you love.

Otherwise, they will give you love according to their definition of love, which may not mean love at all to you! And you may go through life thinking they never ever loved you when actually they cherished you!

I want to emphasize this crucial point by saying it again in different words so you really get what I mean. You need to live love according to your definition of love.

And make sure to love yourself. When you feel at peace and know love yourself for yourself, then and only then, can you give love to another person or animal. Without self-love, you can only know about love.

You can read about it. You  can talk about it. You can think you feel and experience it.

Yet, you can never give what you do not have, can you?

Be in love with yourself. Be in love with your partner. Be in love with your family. Be in love with your friends. Love your pet.

Act on that love every day. Ask others what love is for them so you can give them love they experience as love!

Your life and how you experience your world are always in your control – always and in all ways. You alone give meaning to events and actions.

Take the time to figure out exactly what you need to hear or feel or do so that you know others love you. The time and effort will pay off big time as you will never need to feel unloved agaion. You will clearly know who is willing to love you so you feel love and who cannot do so.

Ah, then you get to choose to accept the people who cannot meet your definition of love for you anyway – exactly as they are and exactly as they are not.

You get to decide who stays in your world and who no longer fits.