Love: How To Make a Difference for Everyone and the Planet Too

What can each individual do to make a difference for all of us and the planet too?

Remember who you really are and your connection to the God force and to each person (animal and thing) in every moment so you stay at a high frequency. You will fill yourself with so much love you can give it away indefinitely. Love solves every problem that ever has or ever will exist.

Remember that the God Force is pure love energy. You be love. Don’t think about it or read about it. Once you get to that place you focus on feeling happy and the rest just happens. You become love.

In case you think this is all hooey – remember when the Beatles came out with the song “All You Really Need Is Love?” I thought they were nuts. Back then I thought love was a euphemism for the word sex (now I am talking about a time of hippies and free love). Wisdom really does come with age—well sometimes it does. And I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, love is THE solution to every problem. Period.

What do I mean by love in this context?

Love comes from your heart. When you truly share yourself with compassion, when you have no intention of getting something in return – that is love. When you feel yourself caring about others even though they are not with you that is love.

And when you honor and respect yourself and your needs that too is love.

The neat thing about real love is the more you give it away, the more it comes back to stay. So you can be generous giving out your love.

Perhaps the best way to share your love is to be love. How? Love yourself first.

Fill yourself with so much love by creating habits that honor and respect you, by knowing who you really are (your True Self – your Spirit). Stay constantly connected with your True Self (Spirit) to become the energy of love. Love will pour out of you. Your aura will be filled with love.

Others will want to be with you and they do not even know why – except that being with you feels good. And the really great news is that being love is not exclusive to you. Every person on this planet can become love. But you always have to start by loving yourself, your True Self, first.

The rest happens automatically.

Spirit and Your True Self: Life Free From Struggle Happens When You Know Your True Self and Spirit

Once you know how to communicate with your True Self how do you apply that knowing in your every day life? How does it make a difference in your daily living?

Every move you plan to take, you listen first to know if what you intend is in your highest and best interest. Your spirit will never ever let you choose a step that ultimately, in the big picture, is NOT in your highest and best interest. NEVER!

I am not saying you will never get hurt because often we learn our most powerful lessons through pain – physical, emotional or spiritual. (I certainly am an expert on that subject) I am saying whatever path you follow will allow you to realize your desires and advance your soul’s journey.

You no longer need to guess whether or not to move forward on a decision. Just ask your spirit for an answer that is completely accurate 100% of the time the time.

Okay, Ali, if you get totally accurate life forwarding information all the time don’t you instantly live in happiness?

No, not until you form new habits. Habits form life styles and create your future. You currently live with habits that prevent you from seeing how you stay stuck.

You probably live in the habit of “not doing” at least in some areas of your life – like taking care of yourself. You train others how to treat you by how you treat yourself – but that is a talk for another time.

To change your world you want to create the habit of listening for your Higher Self (Spirit, Soul) every day. Paying attention to what goes on in your world means becoming present to the NOW.

Few people actually live in the only moment you ever have to act. That moment is now, and now, and now…

The thing is your Higher Self talks to you in every moment. When you remember that Spirit is not separate from you and access its information quickly, you form a habit of being in your world differently.

You will hear the whispers of actions to take and actions to avoid. If you fail to hear those whispers then the Universe gets really loud, in your face and presents a lesson so painful you can’t miss it! And all because you were not paying attention to those daily messages.

Oh yeah, if you miss the whispers and the Universe slams you and you still fail to see the lessons and make the changes you need to make then the next shout from the Universe will be even bigger, even louder and far more attention getting – in other words, something you will see as horrific.

Your life must change when you change your daily thinking, feeling and routines. And until you do, your life CANNOT change. Period. You stay stuck in pain, or at best, in ho hum.

Cooperation: Ask For Help

cooperation – that is how human thrive. So when you have a problem instead of floudering and wasting precious minutes of your life just find someone who knows what yoiu need to know. then ask for help!

Wow! Novel idea! Ask. I sure am glad to finally learn that lesson. Oh yeah, the other side of asking is giving to tohers what you know.

Cooperation is all about living together for the betterment of all – and the planet!

Get in the conversation. Leave a comment below to share whatyou know. After all, we only grow and learn when others speak up!

Your True Self: Who is Your True Self and How Do You Find It?

How do you discover your True Self, who you were at birth, as opposed to the ego self created by your early caretakers who forged your limiting and probably inaccurate self-image??

You need to know how to shut off your conscious mind and the brain programs that run you.

First, set an intention before you begin your daily meditation – or before going to sleep at night. Actually you can ask questions anytime. Meditation is a good time because you tell your subconscious mind as well as your Spirit what you want to know NOW.

Meditations come in all kinds of forms – the quiet going within, going for a walk – AND you can also you can do things like pick up a pencil or even a crayon and paper – and just put it on the paper and write. Whatever comes out is something you will not access using your conscious mind. This is info from your subconscious mind that your Higher Self, your True Self, feels you are ready to handle and so receive.

As a Specialized Kinesiologist, when I work with people we clear energy blocks to physical and emotional healing. Sometimes we get the full emotional history of the issues. Sometimes we just get clear indications of those emotional issues – the themes like fear or lack of self esteem, anger, etc.

Your Higher Self will never ever present you with anything you are not prepared to handle, to deal with, and to cope with. You can write spontaneously. You can write with your non-dominant hand. You can scribble. Or find a meditation, in the more traditional sense, to adopt. Whatever works for you is the thing to do. Never let someone else tell you what is right for you.

You create your system for asking. Always ask what is best for you, in your highest and best interest.

Ah, then you need to know how to receive and recognize the solutions that WILL come.

Let me give you some examples – you overhear music and the song (or the lyrics) have special meaning that applies to you right then. Or maybe you see back of a newspaper, or a billboard. Pick out one CD in your car and the song is what you need to know. Or you grab the wrong book in the bookstore or the library—you call it your intuition. Yes, your Higher Self, your Spirit, your Soul, is that same energy – your intuition.

Learn to tell the difference between your intuition (your Spirit talking to you) and the Little Voice that dwells in your primitive brain and serves to keep you safe by keeping you stuck, not allowing you to try new things to change your life circumstances.

How do you tell the difference? Ask a question – if you get an answer is you are listening to the Little Voice (LV). Your LV will carry on an entire conversation with you. If you do not hear a response then you got a message from your intuition AKA Higher Self or Spirit. No answer is intuition, Higher Self Soul, Spirit

Happiness: Once You Get There What Comes Next

To live in happiness you want to accomplish these major of steps: learn how to communicate with your Higher Self, your Spirit; change your habits and actually shift to a new perspective on how to live each day in happiness.

What comes next? How do you go from happiness to create the connection with the Life Force, with God – the one process that makes the difference between struggle and the lack thereof.

The simple answer is stay 100% present with any task at hand. You focus on the here and now. To feel bad you must either be in your past pain or in your future anticipating of pain.

For instance, when you talk with someone, in that moment that person is the single most important person in the world. You pay attention to the words. You hear the gaps between their words. You notice their body language. You let go of thoughts of what else you could be doing. You stop all thoughts of other activities like making grocery lists and devote 100% of your attention to him or her.

Many of us multitask and we seem to be pretty good at simultaneously doing a number of tasks adequately or even well. Note the word, seem.

You may feel successful doing more than one task at a time. I know I always thought I did all of them really well. Then I thought about what was going on in my brain.

I was using more energy than I realized, energy that needs to be replaced each night with deep sleep. Failure to replace that energy leads to slow deterioration of one’s health and ultimately to death. The medical world calls it aging. I call it failure to replace your daily energy.

The net effect is overdrawing on your energy bank account. The fees build up until they smother you!

In addition, with all that noise in your brain and mind, paying attention to so many unrelated details, there is too much noise to hear your Higher Self communicating with you – as it constantly does.

How do you resolve both issues?

You create the habit of focusing on one item at a time. As you do so your ability to stay in the present and live in the now will increase. With no effort you will hear your Spirit talk with you.

You will remember you are never alone. You remember your actions are in sync with what your Spirit tells you. You never act alone. That deep connection motivates you to continue to live in the present plugged in and turned on to the Truth that we are all connected.

You will hear your Spirit talk to you so clearly you will automatically respond with appropriate actions