You See What You Expect To See

Events just happen. They have no meaning in and of themselves. The only meaning an event has is the one you give it.

Happy people assign positive meanings to events. When something unpleasant happens they look for the good in the situation—even in the worst situations of all. Those people know that the bigger the tragedy, the bigger the lesson and the bigger the growth.

Unhappy people interpret most events in a negative manner. They see the bad side of most things. They fail to recognize their responsibility in how their world looks, and how their life flows (or doesn’t). They blame people and circumstances when they feel unhappy.

People who choose to see the negative side of everything limit what they can be and do in life. They vibrate at lower frequencies and therefore block themselves from getting the things they say they want—most of which vibrate at a higher faster frequency than they do.

The good news is, even negative people can change—when they choose to do so. Change happens instantly. What can take a lifetime is getting ready to change.